Let That Ship Sink: Resolve / Release - Part 2
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Let That Ship Sink: Resolve / Release - Part 2

My natural tendency when it comes to conflict is to resolve as soon as possible. But sometimes it’s not a perfect world. Sometimes you have to agree to disagree. And then, you can’t even agree on what that looks like. That’s the kind of situation I recently found myself in…

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Fight or Flight Fatigue: Resolve / Release - Part 1
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Fight or Flight Fatigue: Resolve / Release - Part 1

A decade ago, I learned about decision fatigue - the idea that the more decisions we make in a day, the harder it becomes to maintain the same level of quality and integrity in each one. Over these tumultuous ten years, has decision fatigue evolved into something even more intense?

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Mid-Life Intelligence: Fluid / Crystal - Part 1
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Mid-Life Intelligence: Fluid / Crystal - Part 1

On a work call this week, someone mentioned reading a book about the difference between fluid and crystal intelligence and the concept really caught my attention - so much so that I just had to write a Juxtapost about it even though I’ve barely started understanding it myself.

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Visiting China: Rumors / Reality
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Visiting China: Rumors / Reality

A recent trip to China reminded me how much legend and myth still shape the way we see places and people, especially those furthest from our daily lived experience. This Juxtapost is a reminder to question the narratives we’ve accepted as fact and stay open to a bigger, more beautiful adventures.

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The Dentist and the Monk: Stains / Stillness
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The Dentist and the Monk: Stains / Stillness

Recently, during a routine visit to my dentist, my hygienist pointed out some minor staining on my teeth and asked if I drank coffee or tea. When I admitted that I do enjoy a daily cup of coffee and sip on tea throughout the day, she offered this suggestion: drink it as quickly as you can to minimize staining.

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My YouTube Confession: Occupied / Moved
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My YouTube Confession: Occupied / Moved

Even as someone who built my career on producing videos for the internet, I almost never watch YouTube. My heart truly belongs to movies. There’s something about the completeness of a film - the way it tells a full story in one sitting - that moves me.

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Modes of Making: Experimenter / Finisher
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Modes of Making: Experimenter / Finisher

In The Creative Act: A Way of Being, Rick Rubin describes a dynamic between different natural tendencies for creative people: Experimenter and Finishers. Rubin encourages us not to pick a side, but to understand both tendencies and to try integrating the one that doesn’t come as naturally. In this Juxtapost, I share three ways I find that balance.

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Happy Half Year: Reflection / Projection
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Happy Half Year: Reflection / Projection

This time of year, a lot of people start quietly evaluating the gap between January goals and July reality. And if we’re not careful, that gap turns into self-judgment. In this Juxtapost, we’re going to strike the right balance between reflection and projection as we go into the second half of the year.

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Juxtapost: Contrast / Harmony
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Juxtapost: Contrast / Harmony

Introducing Juxtapost, an almost-weekly series of bite-sized reflections from a multidisciplinary, neurodivergent creative. Drawing from all corners of life - filmmaking, art, family, business, and quiet moments of observation - each post explores how seemingly contradictory ideas can work in harmony.

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